Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Young couples

Planning to get serious and settle down to start a whole new chapter in your life with someone special? How do you know that you are ready for commitment? There is no school for you to take a test just to make sure you pass in order to know if you are ready or not. So how do you know that you are ready? There is no knowing. There is just a feeling of being confident about what you are stepping into. We all have doubts when it comes to commitment but it just takes a little believe in order to actually move forward. The wonderful feeling of being in love gives you the boost to know that the time is right.
There is absolutely nothing to be scared of. Its a whole new adventure being married and starting a family. Some people never got the chance to feel so loved before. Its something amazing when two people come together and agree to commit themselves to each other. Most times fear comes from what you know about other couples. What if we end up like...? What if it doesn´t work out? The only thing you have to remember is that it takes two to make a relationship works. You have to give up your own feelings sometimes for the sake of your partner. Its a 50/50 business. If you both give 50% then it should work. Personally, I think if you want to know if you are ready, you have to first acknowledge that you are willing to give up yourself for the sake of someone else. Its nothing mentally or physically challenging. If you are in love and if its true love, it will all work out.